LIFE LESSONS FROM THE GARDEN

My Thoughts November 19, 2019

I love to garden.  It started in my mid-forties and I prefer not to tell you how long ago that was. 😊  It began with scarlet red geraniums like the ones you see spilling out of deep blue pottery in pictures of rural France.  Then I started adding milkweed and nectar plants for my monarch butterflies. I have since found the most satisfying aspect of gardening is the inspiring motifs that I can glean.

WEEDS A Perpetual Source Of Inspiration

A weed is described as a plant growing profusely where it is not wanted. Removing it from where it’s unwanted poses many challenges. Herbicides are the method of choice to kill weeds. However, almost every herbicide, including Roundup, contains the chemical glyphosate. Glyphosate has a potential link to cancer.

The alternative method of killing weeds is to use Organic products that are low in toxicity.  But the most safest way to remove them is done on your hands and knees one weed at a time. This all natural way is a constant source of inspiration.

Nature teaches me the most, through the process of weeding.   Hand pulling weeds is time consuming compared to fast acting chemical herbicides but has zero toxicity. It makes me wonder what short cuts that I might be taking because I am unwilling to do the hard work. Could a quicker, easier method ultimately end up being destructive? This metaphor of taking the longer path helps ease some of my journey.

Weeding works best when it has just rained. A storm makes the soil pliable and the weeds pull out easily. I wonder if the storms of life help us wrestle with deep seeded issues. Could troubles make me more open to change, to be molded and shaped differently? Should I welcome some of the harder times to achieve more wholeness?

Over grown weeds will choke out all other plants. Weeding remind us that things in our life can creep up and take over if we don’t stay on guard. Be ever watchful that thoughts don’t become unseemly actions. We must be ever vigilant in what we allow our minds to dwell on lest certain thoughts can dominate our lives. Sometimes we need hand tools to get to the root of weed just like we made need professional assistance to deal with some issues in our life. Every weed I pull is an allegory to destructive thinking and behavior. We must daily and consistently work on pulling unhealthy thinking patterns out of our life just like we to have to daily continue to pull weeds so they don’t take over. The correlation between the undesirable in my garden and my mind is undeniable.

Nutrients

Fertilizing is another act of gardening that I can draw insight from. Chemical fertilizers works very well but do nothing to sustain soil and may result in a toxic buildup. So I chose an organic fertilizer over a chemical one.

I am reminded that I too must truly seek the right factors in my own life to grow stronger. Although something at first glance may appear to promote growth, a closer look proves there are some corruptible elements like in the synthetic fertilizer.

THE THREE Ps

Photosynthesis

Do you have any idea what leaves do…Photosynthesis! Those green leaves that grace every stem take sunrays and do a dance to create fuel to make the whole plant thrive. The “sunlight” that feeds me are bible passages, a combination of vowels and consonants inspired by God that speaks life into me.

Wisdom from on high, the precepts and proverbs, the lessons of David, Abraham, Matthew and John, parables and miracles all of it is used to teach me, set me straight so that I MAY PROSPER. I prosper in my soul, not necessarily in my pocket book, my soul, my relationships, my engaged life, my time as a sojourner in this life

Pollinators

The role of the bumblebee is to pollinate.  He visits blossoms and spreads the pollen from one part of the plant to another, so they will make fruit. Their feat is majestic, their product sweet.

They go about doing what they do best, what they were created for.  What am I created for?  What harvest am I reaping with my activities?  

Pruning

Pruning gives deep inspiration. The gardener must prune the branches to produce fruit. Every season I carefully prune shrubs and cut back plants. The unruly growth and lack of fruit can only be rectified by pruning.

Pruning determines where branching will occur rather than controlling size or shape. The same is true in our own lives.   In what direction am I growing? I must remove certain things in my life in order to flourish. 

Inspired to Thrive

I hope the next time you dig into your garden you will be inspired to see the process in a new light. You too can receive life lessons from the simple acts of weeding, pruning and fertilizing.  May the process of photosynthesis and the beautiful bumblebee provide you insight. A green thumb will inspire you to thrive.

“Still other seed fell on good soil. It came up, grew and produced a crop, some multiplying thirty, some sixty, some a hundred times.” Mark 4:8

“Every branch in Me that does not bear fruit, He takes away; and every branch that bears fruit, He prunes it so that it may bear more fruit.”  John 15:2

This Nut Shines At Thanksgiving

Dinner Table November 1, 2017

To clarify I am not speaking of myself. Although my creativity fully radiates on the holidays, I am referencing another nut, the Pecan. Where would Thanksgiving be without it?

Cultivating Community

Lifestyle October 10, 2017

Scruffy hospitality is liberating!  House cleaning is important but it shouldn’t prevent us from opening up our home. Mess means a house well lived in. Community building amongst friends and strangers is healthy for our souls even without the pinterest perfect setting!

A Wasteland of Dust

It remains invisible until I walk through the house and see my home from my guest’s point of view: fingerprints on the fridge, books and journals piled high next to our reading chairs, a thin layer of dust settled on picture frames and window sills. If the measure of dust on the top of the fridge is the true test of good housekeeping, I fail miserably.

Then there are the chips, the cracks and the broken. My shabby chic style is very forgiving and suits my personality. But anticipated guests can be the perfect incentive to clean and repair. Depending on the occasion I have been inspired to paint, buy new dishes and replace forlorn linen. All the acceptable flaws in my home start to stand out with the anticipated arrival of guests and my adrenaline kicks in.

Scruffy Hospitality

But the desire to make everything picture perfect can be very limiting. Dust and messiness shouldn’t keep me from offering up my home for gatherings. We crave each other’s company. Scruffy hospitality is a brilliant trend.  Don’t let the pressure of having pinterest perfect meals and settings prevent you from enjoying good company and conversation.

The housework can wait. What freedom to say, come for dinner and don’t mind the mess. It’s easy to throw together spaghetti with fresh baguettes and salad for perfect comfort food or suggest a potluck with a few of your friends.

Practicing Hospitality

Practicing Hospitality is life giving. Dr. Christine Pohl has an awesome teaching position, Professor of Church in Society. She researches and writes about how Christians should practice “welcoming”. She has two books I recommend – they are not recipes books or how to set an inviting table landscape.

Her writings describes how hospitality can have a profound affect on community and the individual.  Making Room: Recovering Hospitality as a Christian Tradition  and Living into Community: Cultivating Practices That Sustain Us are two books I recommend if you want to dig deeper and encourage thoughtful reflection.

Make Community Happen

Community meals can happen with a sink full of dirty dishes. Warm touches of candles and homemade dessert paired with stimulating conversation are the essential components of entertaining. I sometimes have Conversation Starters at each place setting to be sure everyone has the opportunity to share and help to get to know one another more.

A Lost Beatitude
Blessed are the guests. Buffing and polishing commences in their anticipated arrival! Or not and that’s okay.

always be eager to practice hospitality
romans 12:13

LIFE LESSONS FROM THE GARDEN

My Thoughts November 19, 2019

I love to garden.  It started in my mid-forties and I prefer not to tell you how long ago that was. 😊  It began with scarlet red geraniums like the ones you see spilling out of deep blue pottery in pictures of rural France.  Then I started adding milkweed and nectar plants for my monarch butterflies. I have since found the most satisfying aspect of gardening is the inspiring motifs that I can glean.

WEEDS A Perpetual Source Of Inspiration

A weed is described as a plant growing profusely where it is not wanted. Removing it from where it’s unwanted poses many challenges. Herbicides are the method of choice to kill weeds. However, almost every herbicide, including Roundup, contains the chemical glyphosate. Glyphosate has a potential link to cancer.

The alternative method of killing weeds is to use Organic products that are low in toxicity.  But the most safest way to remove them is done on your hands and knees one weed at a time. This all natural way is a constant source of inspiration.

Nature teaches me the most, through the process of weeding.   Hand pulling weeds is time consuming compared to fast acting chemical herbicides but has zero toxicity. It makes me wonder what short cuts that I might be taking because I am unwilling to do the hard work. Could a quicker, easier method ultimately end up being destructive? This metaphor of taking the longer path helps ease some of my journey.

Weeding works best when it has just rained. A storm makes the soil pliable and the weeds pull out easily. I wonder if the storms of life help us wrestle with deep seeded issues. Could troubles make me more open to change, to be molded and shaped differently? Should I welcome some of the harder times to achieve more wholeness?

Over grown weeds will choke out all other plants. Weeding remind us that things in our life can creep up and take over if we don’t stay on guard. Be ever watchful that thoughts don’t become unseemly actions. We must be ever vigilant in what we allow our minds to dwell on lest certain thoughts can dominate our lives. Sometimes we need hand tools to get to the root of weed just like we made need professional assistance to deal with some issues in our life. Every weed I pull is an allegory to destructive thinking and behavior. We must daily and consistently work on pulling unhealthy thinking patterns out of our life just like we to have to daily continue to pull weeds so they don’t take over. The correlation between the undesirable in my garden and my mind is undeniable.

Nutrients

Fertilizing is another act of gardening that I can draw insight from. Chemical fertilizers works very well but do nothing to sustain soil and may result in a toxic buildup. So I chose an organic fertilizer over a chemical one.

I am reminded that I too must truly seek the right factors in my own life to grow stronger. Although something at first glance may appear to promote growth, a closer look proves there are some corruptible elements like in the synthetic fertilizer.

THE THREE Ps

Photosynthesis

Do you have any idea what leaves do…Photosynthesis! Those green leaves that grace every stem take sunrays and do a dance to create fuel to make the whole plant thrive. The “sunlight” that feeds me are bible passages, a combination of vowels and consonants inspired by God that speaks life into me.

Wisdom from on high, the precepts and proverbs, the lessons of David, Abraham, Matthew and John, parables and miracles all of it is used to teach me, set me straight so that I MAY PROSPER. I prosper in my soul, not necessarily in my pocket book, my soul, my relationships, my engaged life, my time as a sojourner in this life

Pollinators

The role of the bumblebee is to pollinate.  He visits blossoms and spreads the pollen from one part of the plant to another, so they will make fruit. Their feat is majestic, their product sweet.

They go about doing what they do best, what they were created for.  What am I created for?  What harvest am I reaping with my activities?  

Pruning

Pruning gives deep inspiration. The gardener must prune the branches to produce fruit. Every season I carefully prune shrubs and cut back plants. The unruly growth and lack of fruit can only be rectified by pruning.

Pruning determines where branching will occur rather than controlling size or shape. The same is true in our own lives.   In what direction am I growing? I must remove certain things in my life in order to flourish. 

Inspired to Thrive

I hope the next time you dig into your garden you will be inspired to see the process in a new light. You too can receive life lessons from the simple acts of weeding, pruning and fertilizing.  May the process of photosynthesis and the beautiful bumblebee provide you insight. A green thumb will inspire you to thrive.

“Still other seed fell on good soil. It came up, grew and produced a crop, some multiplying thirty, some sixty, some a hundred times.” Mark 4:8

“Every branch in Me that does not bear fruit, He takes away; and every branch that bears fruit, He prunes it so that it may bear more fruit.”  John 15:2

PERFECT HARDBOILED EGG

Dinner Table, Great Ideas October 5, 2018

I have finally learned the culinary secret to a hardboiled egg that peels perfect everytime. This has been adult pursuit of mine and I have only just mastered it. I am also stymied by the sheer number of types of eggs now available: caged, free-range, free-run, cage-free and now PASTURE RAISED.  You can even  purchase Mayo with Cage Free Eggs. Apparently the housing of the hen is the heart of the matter. 

Breast is Best

My Thoughts March 25, 2018

In the late seventies I was a teenager with a passion for social justice.  When I learned that thousands of babies in Africa were dying from formula mixed with unsanitary water I got involved. Nestlé used unethical marketing practices to promote the use of formula over breast milk. A boycott of Nestlé products ensued.  No more Nesquik or Toll House semi-sweet chocolate chip cookies. My commitment has lasted  40 years!